By Richard Ray:

 

In the exhaustive research I conducted for the #Atlorgy piece, I found the woman behind the organized event to be an interesting dichotomy of honesty and contradictions. Okay, exhaustive may have been a bit of an overstatement, but in the Trump era of alternative facts #lietillyoudie, I figured the 80 minutes of video on the subject I watched qualified as actual investigative reporting in this lazy age of journalism.

Cindy Green is no different than most of us when given the opportunity to speak without interruption. The video I saw was both a pseudo interview and self posting of her thoughts. This platform gave her the opportunity to promote herself and her 27th Birthday party, which came to be virally known as the Atlanta Orgy.

I have included a video I saw, both to let the woman speak for herself and to leave some of the more colorful language of the topic said instead of written. I hardly qualify as a prude, but definitely fall short of certified freak status. I am unsure what makes someone a freak these days. Is it volume? Is it uninhibitedness? Is it degree of difficulty? Is it the scale to which you would embarrass your parents or loved ones? I do not know what the answers are. I am sure I fashioned myself above and beyond at one time, but I do not even know what is considered extraordinary versus pedestrian these days.

Atlanta Orgy

I do know that whatever I am, I am private, to a degree. I am definitely not unabashed, unless in the privacy of my dungeon with no witness or proof of intended indiscretions. A true freak wouldn’t care, I imagine, so that automatically disqualifies me from true and certified status. Cindy Green initially talked a good game. She initially said all the right and nasty words. She acted like she was bout it bout it and I could see why some people thought her intended swingers birthday bash was going to be momentous Freak Fest.

I know we are all full of contradictions. Some of us we walk such a fine line that we fight hypocrisy way more than we do how conflicted and potentially contradictory we seem so often. Part of the contradiction is somehow promoting that condoms will be available or people can bring their own, but then repeatedly saying you hate them and are “team raw dog”.  Not exactly politically correct promotion of a event in a city with one of the highest HIV/Aids rates in the country. Not everything we do is well thought out and completely consistent, but can self anointed certified sexual freaks really come with a list of sexual rules far longer and more complex than the Da Vinci Code? I say no! I am clearly not the authority, but only fugazi freaks come with a laundry lists of rules and regulations (you can fast forward to 15:15 of the video to hear some of the don’ts).

I don’t judge. It’s all rather amusing. I am not singling this young lady out, but just pointing out the not so obvious. Some people are so desperate to believe what they want. I don’t knock the hustle so if you are going to self promote and self proclaim I get part of it may be salesmanship. But, if you are going to charge people $175.00 based on how freaky you are and the party may be… well I would think you need to be freaky.

I know this is so subjective. I am not even sure if freaky can be defined, because it is so dependent on each individual’s experiences and ideals of sexuality. What I do not expect the leader of a freak show is to have a longer list of “dont’s” versus “do’s”. Everyone should respect boundaries no matter how open or vocal someone is about their sexuality, but I personally find it a little confusing when my swinging/orgy organizer says she can only enjoy sex when in love or having strong feelings for her partners. Again, team #nojudging here, but do swinging/orgies and feelings really co-exist? I dare say not, but this would not be the first time I was ever wrong.

 

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