Men, both straight and gay, have been dictating to society what are the acceptable and standards of beauty for women for… forever is probably appropriate. Since the advent of print and televised media, Anglo Saxon/European looking women have been the prevailing standard of beauty. There have been some variations with slightly olive complexioned Italian, Spanish […]
TIME FOR MEN MEASURED THROUGH SPORTS
Men and women tackle the thought of aging very differently. Most think that women are affected by aging more than men. That is actually false. We just come to the realization of our aging and mortality in very different ways. In general, men are able to ignore their mirror’s truths and warnings more than women. […]
APRIL FOOLS
You would think with a self proclaimed handle like “Diary Of A Mad Mind” April fools day would be my favorite manufactured holiday, but that has never really been the case. Call it the trauma from my youth, when my mother smacked me for a birthday card for a “play” cousin on April 1st. I […]
ATL ORGY – FUGAZI FREAK
By Richard Ray: In the exhaustive research I conducted for the #Atlorgy piece, I found the woman behind the organized event to be an interesting dichotomy of honesty and contradictions. Okay, exhaustive may have been a bit of an overstatement, but in the Trump era of alternative facts #lietillyoudie, I figured the 80 minutes […]
STOP POLITICIZING RAPE
A 14 year old girl appears to have been brutally sexually assaulted by an 18 year old and 17 year old in her high school. That is the sad reality period. Any sexual assault of any person should be met with the uproar and outcry that this particular incident has incited, but for entirely different […]
ATL ORGY
By Richard Ray Evidently I am literally late to the party. So a young lady in Atlanta decided to celebrate her 27th Birthday by organizing an orgy. I missed the notice, but evidently it was a real thing organized by a young lady named Cidney Green. I spend all of 2 minutes a day […]
KIDS THESE DAYS
I hear it all the time from either people with kids or simply old enough to have kids. The sentences are all some variation of “Kids these days…” followed by some denouncement of the state of today’s youth. Either kids today do not know anything… the music they listen to, particularly hip hop, is horrible […]
LAVAR BALL
He’s brash. He’s bold. He’s never at a loss for words. Hyperbole seems to be his best friend. He is one of the most polarizing figures in basketball, if not all of sports. He is Lavar Ball. All of those previous statements are subjective and up for debate. What is fact is that he […]
TAKING CHANCES
“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” I have been taking chances literally all my life. I would like to think most of it is innate, at least when it came to confidence in my physical abilities. That supreme confidence did not match my initial shyness and reluctance around people, particular of […]
THE NEWS
With all this talk about “fake news”, let me just say that the regular, “real” news is not much better. The news is depressing. Whether its your local station, the 24 hour cable networks or the International variety like BBC or Al Jazeera, the news is labyrinth of disseminated information in which goodness and positivity […]